FirstWeeksYour baby at 35 weeks: stranger radar
Medically-informed · Sources: CDC · Updated June 2026
Stranger wariness commonly sharpens: the same grandma who got smiles last month may get suspicion first. It's memory, not manners.
What’s happening
Why the cold shoulder
Baby now firmly knows who's who — and treats unknown faces as pending review. Commonly seen from 8 months and often lasting well into the second year in waves.
The slow-warm protocol
Visitors succeed by ignoring baby at first: talk to you, stay at distance, let baby approach. Handing baby over cold commonly backfires.
Home base behavior
Expect check-back-and-explore loops: crawl away, look back, return, repeat. You're the charging dock.
What to do
- Brief visitors on the slow-warm rule before they arrive
- Keep hellos and handoffs unhurried — baby sets the pace
- Practice short separations at home with cheerful returns
When to check in
Total absence of preference for familiar people is worth mentioning at a visit.
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